Obituaries

Rosa Guzowski
D: 2015-03-30
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Guzowski, Rosa
Laryon Onwu
D: 2015-03-30
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Onwu, Laryon
Gloria Holton
B: 1940-01-17
D: 2015-03-30
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Holton, Gloria
JoAnn DiGrazia
B: 1941-07-21
D: 2015-03-29
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DiGrazia, JoAnn
Joseph Stile
B: 1917-09-02
D: 2015-03-28
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Stile, Joseph
Barbara Mehrman
B: 1937-03-03
D: 2015-03-25
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Mehrman, Barbara
Vivian Altobello
B: 1917-08-22
D: 2015-03-25
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Altobello, Vivian
Frieda DeLecce
B: 1917-09-23
D: 2015-03-23
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DeLecce, Frieda
Dolores Bonghi
B: 1932-09-28
D: 2015-03-22
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Bonghi, Dolores
James Peeling
B: 1953-01-07
D: 2015-03-21
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Peeling, James
Mabel Loughlin
B: 1932-10-10
D: 2015-03-21
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Loughlin, Mabel
Peter Ilyichenko
B: 1937-06-10
D: 2015-03-18
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Ilyichenko, Peter
Dr. Evelyn Martin
B: 1944-09-30
D: 2015-03-17
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Martin, Dr. Evelyn
Carl Gestal
B: 1925-09-02
D: 2015-03-16
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Gestal, Carl
Jean Leacock
B: 1929-06-19
D: 2015-03-16
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Leacock, Jean
Salvatore Graziosi
B: 1930-11-27
D: 2015-03-15
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Graziosi, Salvatore
Elvira Caruso
B: 1924-04-16
D: 2015-03-14
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Caruso, Elvira
Charles Lucido
B: 1933-04-24
D: 2015-03-13
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Lucido, Charles
Joseph Latini
B: 1951-04-14
D: 2015-03-12
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Latini, Joseph
Ray Ferraro
B: 1933-05-24
D: 2015-03-10
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Ferraro, Ray
Vivian Barba
B: 1916-04-04
D: 2015-03-08
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Barba, Vivian

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