Obituaries

George Zangrillo
B: 1925-02-15
D: 2016-08-26
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Zangrillo, George
Eugene Sullivan
B: 1940-08-14
D: 2016-08-26
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Sullivan, Eugene
Robert Pasquale
B: 1931-02-03
D: 2016-08-26
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Pasquale, Robert
Bill Rivers
B: 1940-06-12
D: 2016-08-22
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Rivers, Bill
Joseph Brannigan
B: 1964-08-05
D: 2016-08-22
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Brannigan, Joseph
Susan D. Lesica
B: 1957-06-01
D: 2016-08-22
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Lesica, Susan D.
Eda Sgambati
B: 1926-06-16
D: 2016-08-19
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Sgambati, Eda
Frank Price
B: 1948-01-17
D: 2016-08-18
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Price, Frank
Michael Librizzi
B: 2000-01-12
D: 2016-08-17
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Librizzi, Michael
Dennis Olsen
B: 1928-07-04
D: 2016-08-16
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Olsen, Dennis
Gloria Salas de Lievano
B: 1947-01-24
D: 2016-08-15
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Salas de Lievano, Gloria
Matthew Wargas
B: 1978-01-16
D: 2016-08-12
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Wargas, Matthew
William Faivre
B: 1953-07-08
D: 2016-08-11
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Faivre, William
Kitty Phipps
B: 1939-04-12
D: 2016-08-08
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Phipps, Kitty
Francesco Morreale
B: 1949-01-11
D: 2016-08-04
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Morreale, Francesco
Joseph Alessi
B: 1932-09-01
D: 2016-08-04
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Alessi, Joseph
Lawrence Preston
B: 1928-11-16
D: 2016-08-02
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Preston, Lawrence
Anna Marie Spero
B: 1954-12-24
D: 2016-08-02
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Spero, Anna Marie
Frances Tedesco
B: 1929-01-08
D: 2016-07-28
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Tedesco, Frances
Dana D'Agostino
B: 1948-05-11
D: 2016-07-27
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D'Agostino, Dana
Ronnie Luba
B: 1942-03-25
D: 2016-07-25
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Luba, Ronnie

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